They make videos of parts for people to address their own parts. It leaves out the middle “part,” which is the heart, no? In my early 20's, I was definitely no angel when it came to sex. What I realize now, happily married, is that sex only brings a true spirit of fulfillment when it is shared by my husband and I. I don't feel unworthy, I don't feel like I accommodated him to get his attention, I don't feel like I “have to” to get him to like me, I don't feel sad that he's going to leave in a few minutes, and I don't feel objectified. I feel whole.

Now that I see and feel this wholeness, I wouldn't want to squander it. I feel sorry for those who have only had the “parts” and not the whole. They don't know the difference.

Yeah – Solomon was quite the 'man'- per se. But I believe that all of his partners weren't what God had in mind for him – check out 1 Kings 11:1-6!!

If someone can relate to my story – and be helped, that is what I hope for. I realize that my story may not relate to everyone.

The most sexually explicit book in the Bible, “Solomon's Song of Songs”, was written by Solomon, who had over 700 sexual partners.

Consider carefully where you get your sexuall instruction from before you tell an unbeliever that pornography is destructive.