Comments on: Wives Try This: Initiate Sex With Your Husband

By: I Think the Proverbs 31 Wife Liked Being on Top

I Think the Proverbs 31 Wife Liked Being on Top — Tue, 08 Jun 2010 09:41:12 +0000

[...] prevalent to overlook. Here’s one worth pondering: Many husbands wish their wives not only would initiate sex more, but also would be more enthusiastic (even, dare I say, sexually confident) in the [...]

By: Non Ymous

Non Ymous — Wed, 14 Apr 2010 22:26:10 +0000

Bang on!

By: landschooner

landschooner — Thu, 25 Mar 2010 07:24:17 +0000

I'd also have to add that intention and desire have everything to do with it. If you can't, you can't, but if you won't, or don't want to, that's something else entirely. If my spouse won't talk to me for weeks at a time, I'm hurt and I should be. If my spouse has a stroke and becomes a deaf/mute, then we'll figure out a way to communicate somehow.

By: Diana Daffner

Diana Daffner — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 23:02:56 +0000

@Kim: A marriage that celebrates sexual energy may or may not be superior or inferior to one that doesn't. It's not the only factor in a relationship. However, erotic intimacy can truly create a joyful and meaningful bond between two people. There's something magical about that "lovin' feelin'" that gives zest to our lives. And the sexual menu is large enough to allow even those with a physical disability to participate. I suppose there are marriages based on something other than love (think financial arrangement). Perhaps sex is not an essential part of such marriages. Marriage itself isn't essential to well-lived life. But for both married partners to be truly happy in their hearts, to live as a couple and not just roommates, being connected sexually is indeed important. But what exactly IS sex? It's not just that in-and-out acitivity, is it? I take a different approach… http://IntimacyRetreats.com/sex.htm

By: Diana Daffner

Diana Daffner — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 23:02:00 +0000

By: Kim Sabatoni

Kim Sabatoni — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 18:45:39 +0000

You absolutely have a good point; however, there are couples who, for whatever reason (think physical disability), cannot engage in sexual relations. Does this mean that they have an inferior marriage? Do state that sex is" an essential part of the journey of marriage" certainly implies so.

By: Kim Sabatoni

Kim Sabatoni — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 18:45:00 +0000

By: The Top 15 Posts from the Marry Blogger in 2009

The Top 15 Posts from the Marry Blogger in 2009 — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 03:52:55 +0000

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By: Stu Gray

Stu Gray — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 04:55:25 +0000

Diana – Thanks so much for the comment!!! Great article by the way – its always great to read others thoughts on healthy marriages!

By: Stu Gray

Stu Gray — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 04:55:00 +0000

Diana – Thanks so much for the comment!!! Great article by the way – its always great to read others thoughts on healthy marriages!