Hey Dude, Your Wife is Hot

No, I am not hitting on your wife, or trying to pick her up.

But I am asking you this:

Do you remember who you fell in love with?

That woman…Yes, your wife…

She is a sensual, sexual creature.

Not the old ball and chain .

Not the family taxicab

Not your doormat

I watch other men watch my wife. She gets many looks, some she notices – some give her the willies – some she doesn’t see at all.

I really don’t want to know what’s going on in the minds of other men about my wife. That’s a blog for another day.

Here is the point:

It reminds me that my wife is Hot.

She is a sexual, sensual human being.

More than mommy, more than the cook.

She is appreciated for her beauty by others. (yes, she is more than just a beautiful body – stick with me).

When others notice her looks, It makes me work harder for her. I don’t take her for granted.

It gives me more of that

THRILL-OF-THE-CHASE ‘Thing’ that we had going early in our relationship.

My beautiful wife consciously makes a choice every moment to love me.

And not some other schmendrick.

Our marriage is more than the physical. It has to be to be a SUCCESS.

But there is nothing wrong with remembering that my wife is

ACTIVELY

CHOOSING

TO BE WITH

ME.

And other men noticing her beauty helps me remember that.

Too shallow?

Do you think this is a valid point? How do you remember that your wife is more than a cook or a doormat? What did I miss?

photo by matt.davis

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