What If?

by Stu Gray on March 1, 2009

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I have questions on my mind

As I began thinking about my Marriage, and what it meant, I started asking questions. Here is a list:

1. What if the soul was infinitely deep?

2. What if you couldn’t know everything about your mate?

3. What if you had to keep asking questions to keep up to date with your mate?

4. What if you enjoyed asking questions?

5. What if you treated your mate as a mystery?

6. What if you treated your mate as a treasure?

7. What if you treated your mate as an adventure?

8. What if you treated your mate as hard to get?

9. What if you kept exploring your relationship?

10. What if you enjoyed each others company?

11. What if you liked being friends?

12. What if you enjoyed each others friends?

13. What you you respected your mates choices?

14. What if you wanted to know more about them?

15. What if you wanted to connect emotionally?

16. What if you wanted to connect more physically?

17. What if it was about more than just sex?

18. What if your mate was really enough?

19. What if they are good enough?

20. What if they really were the one that you were meant to be with?

21. What if you treated your spouse like you treated people who WEREN’T Your spouse?

22. What if marriage was a journey, and not a series of valleys and peaks?

23. What if you could learn from your past?

24. What if you could have big vision for your future together?

25. What if your marriage had a divine purpose?

26. What if your marriage showed the world what God was like?

27. What if your marriage brought order to the world?

28. What if your marriage was a creative place?

29. What if your marriage was a safe place?

30. What if your marriage was an intimate place?

31. What if you could be naked and unashamed in your marriage?

32. What if you really sorted thru the baggage from previous relationships?

33. What if you could give 100% to your spouse?

34. What if your marriage wasn’t disposable?

35. What if you didn’t leave anything out?

36. What if you believed your mate was worth getting to know?

37. What if you spent the rest of your life getting to know them?

Now its your turn….

Do you have any what if questions about your marriage?

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Derek March 2, 2010 at 11:45 am

What if my mate thought it was his/her responsibility to maintain a sexy appearance?

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