You must live in the present, launch yourself on every wave, find your eternity in each moment.” – Henry David Thoreau
I’m staring at my new Blackberry Curve sitting on my desk as I write this post. I just got the thing 3 weeks ago. My old blackberry started acting funny – deleting messages on its own and disconnecting from the network, so I couldn’t get calls.
Let’s be honest. The call that mattered that I couldn’t get: the one from my Beautiful Wife™, wondering if I purchased the “correct” bread from Walmart. (Is there a “correct” bread?)
The Blackberry is always at my side. Most times its in my hot little hand. I like it for keeping up with great marriage blogs.
Being connected to the Blackberry all the time wouldn’t be an issue if I lived by myself. But my life is also connected to my Beautiful Wife™ and kool kiddo. He likes to play outside at every possible moment. He’s 4, and with the crazy winter we’ve had, we figure its good to let him get out there as much as possible when it’s warm.
When we go outside to the cul-de-sac, we kick the ball, or ride the “red bike” , or bounce a ball, or play tag, or hide and seek, or ‘Dad-come-here-I-wanna-show-you-something’, and he displays the cleared out dirt patch for his cars under our tree.
If we are playing hide and seek, there are a good 2 minutes where I can take out the Blackberry and get a quick read in before he finds me. Even when we play kickball, most times if I just kick the ball a little out of his reach, I am guaranteed about 45 more seconds of the crackberry.
‘Are you ever going to unplug from that thing?’ My Beautiful Wife™ asked, just a couple days ago. It was something she has said before, but this time something in me said – Hmm, maybe I should think about that.
Are you Present in the Present?
I’ve never been mountain climbing. I believe that if I ever did, I would have 2 thoughts:
- 1. Don’t die. Don’t die Don’t die. Don’t die. And
2. How long til we get to the top?
When I made it to the top of the mountain I’d be thinking – ‘How am I going to get down from here in a way that doesn’t cause an avalanche?’
One of the guys in the Bible – Moses, got to climb a mountain and hang out with God. Check this out in the book of Exodus:
And the Lord said to Moses, come up to me into the mountain and be there, and I will give you tables of stone, with the law and the commandments which I have written that you may teach them. (Exodus 24.12)
AND BE THERE.
I think those words are very important. If Moe was climbing the mountain…and thinking, “How long til the top” — He wasn’t present in the present. If he’s at the top of the mountain and thinking, “How am I going to get down from here” — he wasn’t present in the present.
God says — Come up here AND BE HERE. Hang out with me. Be with me. Be present in my presence. ( I think its because Moe had to take some serious notes while he was up there – but still – God wanted him present with Him. Not thinking about heading down the hill.)
Being Present.
Simple.
Not Easy.
I miss this a lot. I miss it with my son when we are outside playing and I am on the Blackberry.
I miss it with my wife when I am writing, and she is sitting in the other room waiting for me.
I miss it when I check out of a conversation with a friend, trying to remember what my wife said that I need to pick up at Walmart before I get home. (Probably that bread again.)
How can we be Present in the Present? (A quick list)
1. Turn off Distractions.
2. Slow down.
3. Ask questions.
4. Lean in and make eye contact.
5. Breathe.
I want to give props where they are due…I originally heard thoughts about these verses about Moses from pastor and speaker Rob Bell!! He Rocks!
photo by leinsterman
